Thoba Sithole, a Zulu from KwaDukuza, and Tshepo Modisane, a Tswana
from Johannesburg, tied the knot on Saturday in KwaDukuza with about 200
people, including family, friends, onlookers and the media in
attendance.
Sithole and Modisane, both 27, defended their wedding and said there was nothing evil or untraditional about it.
The Gay Couple Took a Kiss Professor Velaphi Mkhize, a Zulu
traditional culture analyst and writer, said Zulu culture did not
recognise homosexuality, therefore, traditionally, Modisane and
Sithole’s marriage was void.
“In the olden days there were homosexuals, but when a gay child was
born the family used to slaughter an animal to plead with the ancestors
to intervene and take the evil spirit away from the child.”
“However, now the constitution recognises homosexuality and gay
marriages and the biggest challenge we are facing is how do we continue
to call something a taboo if it is recognised by the constitution.”
He said the marriage was an insult to Zulu forefathers because
marriage was traditionally a way to expand the family. Wives were
expected to give birth to children who would carry their families’ names
forward. Homosexuality made this impossible, said Mkhize.
However, Sithole, an IT specialist based in Johannesburg, said:
“If being gay is evil, why did God create gay people? Gays are born
gay and according to a Bible scripture we were all created by God, so I
don’t see anything evil about being born gay because it means that God
wanted you to be gay.” ***WTF***
Modisane said they did not need to justify their wedding to the public because it was only between them, and to make them happy.
“We decided to have a traditional wedding because we firstly wanted
to show people that being homosexual can be part of an African culture.
“Secondly, we wanted to celebrate the love we have for each other and
show people that we don’t feel ashamed for the choices we have made in
our lives,” said Modisane, who works as a chartered accountant in
Johannesburg.
The couple said the support they had received from their families made it easier for them to tie the knot.
“My family has always been there for me and had always been there for
me even in my previous homosexual relationships,” said Modisane.
Sithole said his mother had always told him how she was looking forward to seeing him getting married to his partner.
They started dating in 2011 after they had been friends for some time.
Modisane said he was attracted to Sithole because he was a
well-grounded man who loved God and was someone who could bring
stability in his life.
Sithole said their next step after the wedding was buying a home and
starting their own family. “We are fully committed to each other and we
believe children form an important foundation in bringing stability in
one’s life,” he said. “We will be adopting two kids – a boy and a girl –
to be part of our family.”
Source: naijaurban
HBC: OMG...Am confused here OoOOo When they mention "God", are they referring to the same God that destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of Homosexualism or its a totally different/new one now? Please some one should intervene and let them not adopt any child.
Rubbish.......mtcheeeee.....Dirty...
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